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no. jean louis, give me a chance to catch up here.

your ex-lover is your parental figure?

i suppose you could say that. it's always been a strange mix.

i was gonna tell you: yes, strange and illegal.

but honestly, i'm more... how did you feel about it?

it was fine. i haven't thought about it, really.

am i... supposed to feel something about it?

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i can't tell you how you're supposed to feel, jean louis. i shouldn't. i don't want to. it's not my job. the experience was yours, you felt what you felt, thought what you thought.

but do you remember the discussion we had, about my proposition? before christmas? about power dynamics and authority in sexual relationships? and about why i think it's important to legislate about these things? well, this is why. regardless of how it has or hasn't affected you specifically, such a situation would be difficult and dangerous to navigate for anyone.

i'd been on my own for a long time, back then.

you have so many thoughts about sexual power dynamics. it's interesting, if a bit confusing. i won't tell you what to think, either, that's very much your own business. coffee is also not a necessity - if nothing else, we can do it without you. it's fine.